Courtney Morris
Through my own experience and simple observation, I have recently become aware of the importance of opening oneself up to others' perspectives. It seems that too often we get caught up in our own lives, which of course is easy to do, and fail to notice (or even try to imagine) what life may be like for others. When we allow ourselves to "walk a mile in someone else's shoes" (please forgive the cliche), we are opening ourselves up to new experiences and opportunities to gain new insights in which we may not have otherwise.
Lately I have tried doing this myself,
simply as an experiment. Whether in a conversation with a friend or
family member, or even during a discussion at school or work, I have found the
experience to be not only eye-opening but also quite beneficial for the
relationship on both ends. I tried this without telling anyone what I was
doing, but it may be helpful to tell a friend what you are doing, if you
think he or she could benefit as well: "I've been finding it really
helpful to look at life from different perspectives lately."...
I also found some simple ways to incorporate this into my life. First, I simply started asking myself some basic questions, such as "what might this situation be like for (so and so) based on his or her background/personality, etc."? or "how might (so and so)'s experience be impacting how they are reacting to what I'm saying right now?".
In learning to live more open-mindedly with an appreciation for others' perspectives, we can all grow and hopefully become more understanding people
I also found some simple ways to incorporate this into my life. First, I simply started asking myself some basic questions, such as "what might this situation be like for (so and so) based on his or her background/personality, etc."? or "how might (so and so)'s experience be impacting how they are reacting to what I'm saying right now?".
In learning to live more open-mindedly with an appreciation for others' perspectives, we can all grow and hopefully become more understanding people
I love this blog, Courtney! What a great practice and how great would the world be if we each tried to do this at least one time every day? New challenge!
ReplyDeleteI ditto what Katie said - if only the world would try to do this.
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