Not Being Perfect is
Perfectly OKAY!
Deandra Christianson
I have recently been
thinking about how important it is to not only acknowledge and appreciate our
strengths, but also acknowledge our weaknesses. By doing this, we give
ourselves options. Instead of being critical of ourselves for having weakness,
we can make changes or just “own” it. This concept can be extraordinarily
frightening, but we just cannot be perfect. We are human. We make mistakes. We
have weaknesses. AND IT IS OKAY! That, to me, is a HUGE relief!
For example, I am not
good at sports. I am very uncoordinated, and if a ball is flying at my face, I
will run the other way. I love being active, but I have found other ways such
as dance, running, and yoga to move my body. This is a weakness I “own.” At
this point in my life, it is not a priority for me to be good at sports. Maybe
in another time, this will be something I will work on. This is where it is
very important to know my strengths. I can appreciate that there are other
things I do well.
The other option is to
work on a weakness. For example, I tend to run late or arrive somewhere with no
time to spare. This is a weakness I am aware of, and I think it is important to
work on it. I have been making improvements in this area. For me, this was
something that was impacting my life and needed to be addressed.
Having these options
can be freeing. These examples may seem arbitrary, but I believe this can be
applied to many areas. I think the root of this is feeling so grounded in one’s
strengths that other things are not as important. It also incorporates the idea
of being compassionate toward ourselves instead of critical.
You can give so much
to the world through your strengths. Let them shine, and don’t worry about
perfection.
Deandra
ReplyDeleteThanks for your thought provoking article. RAther than shaming ourselves for what we perceive as flaws or weaknesses, what if we just accepted them as part of being human! We can't be great at everything - it just isn't possible - and also it would diminish the 'greatness' of those areas in which we truly shine.